Thursday, October 28, 2010

Bearded Dragon Cage Plans

7 –I molti misteri della stagione 2008-2009


In this episode I'll have to use several times the conditional. Between June 2008 and June 2009 captain in fact some things that we can interpret with certainty.

summer of 2008, the first event nebulous. The so-called Freedom Circles Dell'Utri invest in some Italian table tennis teams, including AS Pieve Emanuele. So are reported to be the father of Jason D'Ambrosio himself, who tells him also that from that moment he is no longer the president of the church. Instead his successor as representative Mr. Fenini.
Fenini And it is in fact to make the proposal to Robert Jason should be transferred in Pieve Emanuele, in a house made available society. The same company will pay a private school (Jason has nearly 17 years, goes to the 4th high school) and 200 € monthly. With him he should move Frizzo Tatum, his teammate, but - from what we know - the family is opposed. After all, the guy lives 10 minutes by road from church.
For Jason is a different matter. In our "career" as parents we have always followed a philosophy: to help our children to see the pros and cons of each situation, but then let them choose for themselves. And once you have chosen, support them.
Jason then takes nine months and 16 years and even made to leave his home, his school, we. The bought a desk, a chair, a TV, we help to pack up and accompany him in his new life.

I would be able to describe the house. I do not think of power. Imagine a neighborhood far from the village, lost in the fog between tangential and state. At the entrance of the neighborhood, squalid buildings started and never finished. The apartment itself is also beautiful, spacious terrace with a pretty good. But living there for years players Parish, who comes and who goes, all boys. It has never been cleaned. say never. What's in the kitchen, behind the refrigerator, under cabinets, is described and do not find him immediately. That day I see swimming in the limit of decency, and the toilet seat will buy it then Jason. Around in the closet, bathroom, terrace, there are shoes abandoned by those he left, sacks of used clothes from who knows ... well, before my son pretend to anything, but just in car blast into tears.
no longer speak to the apartment, so I add that Roberto has blanched at our expense and that we clean from top to bottom. I would also add that, since after the summer of 2009, Jason has found a honeycomb on the balcony. There was no way to convince the leadership to call pest control for which my son took up the issue by only running a serious risk. And in autumn 2009, will remain long without heating.

School. I thought, silly I am, there were specific agreements between the school and society. That collaboration was tested. That they were behind the many problems we had with the old school. Instead, Roberto is forced to go in person to talk to the principal several times and find a wall. No elasticity of time for the sporting commitment, no question programmed, no help for the absence of commitments at the national team (although in class are only 7!). On the other hand, claim that the boys attend in the afternoon, tuition paid by the teachers themselves. Like all other students, not because he had need. Beyond the obvious ethical considerations (I imbufalita), Jason had not moved to church to go to school full time. We found ourselves looking for another school and found one in downtown Milan. On this return, speaking of the terrible winter of 2010.

Now we are still autumn 2008. And the tension is high in the gym. The reason remains a mystery. Boboc Party, who moved to France to coach Denis and Patrick were Antonio Gigliotti.
Rumors of a big fight broke out in June in the year-end pizza party, including coaches and president, but we do not know if this is true even today.
After the initial trip to Treviso, another event still shrouded in mystery. Mate Jason, Frizzo Tatum, disappears. No longer appears to training or matches. Jason loses contact. What has happened, do not know. But Frizzo the Pieve Emanuele closed forever.
Antonio Gigliotti takes its place in the team of A2.
It begins a period that is unbelievable. Relationships with Jason Antonio enhance and binds of friendship to another teammate, Chinese Shi Xiauoyu. But he trains with the strong Stoyanov and the other of the first team.
These kids are isolated in some way from the stresses of leadership and play, play and still play.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Does Wella Have Semi Color?

6 – Dall'agosto 2006 al settembre 2008

I'll tell you in this chapter the following two years.
that the problems have remained the same, it is clear from the first meetings after the holidays.
Jason always goes to church once a week, always accompanied by his father, leaving the first school to be there more. But once in the gym, Frizzo is called by some, to work with the best players of Italy (Mondello and Piacentini), Jason should be the other, with the second lines. Even at one stage, are made to travel separately.
Jason suffers heavily this unequal treatment. Has 15 plus years, many problems in school where teachers do not accept his absences for the national team open and his early exits. It is increasingly closed and angry. In exchange for many sacrifices and many problems, not only the stimuli are given, allowing some time to play with the samples, but it happens to be constrained by new coach Antonio Gigliotti to play with boys much less strong and invited him to get dressed and leave if you do not "train well." If we think that it was first released from school and he and his father had done 80 km on a hellish road (Ring Road Autolaghi and Milan), it makes sense? And above all what it means to train well in these conditions?
I have always stubbornly kept my children away from the victim and the black chick Calimero syndrome. Indeed, when they came home from school complaining that this or that teacher will target them, or when blamed others for their mistakes, he gets double punishment.
But at certain moments in this story was really hard for me not to give in, not see the persecution (also unexplained) in certain behaviors.

Roberto tackling the issue with the president only asked to invest a bit 'more about Jason, however, since the results are good, without taking away anything to anyone. D'Ambrosio gives two answers.
The first is that Denise does not want to train a boy who sees only once a week, is not his method.
The second, that's incredible, is as follows: - Jason is on loan, I can invest with a bond so precarious.
Roberto non può immaginare di essere preso in giro. E come potrebbe? Pensate che è il Tennis Tavolo Angera a far fare a Jason tutte le visite mediche necessarie per l'attività!  
Quindi il padre insonsapevole assicura il presidente che se la società si fosse comportata correttamente Jason ci sarebbe sempre stato, come del resto è accaduto per cinque anni.
E prende la decisione di portare Jason due volte, con enormi difficoltà. Immaginatevi come la prendono a scuola!
L'allenatore Bobocica, che da tempo ha intuito le potenzialità di Jason, propone al presidente di farlo venire ad abitare Pieve Emanuele since September 2007, one of the guest quarters of society. But the president drops, has no money, is not interested, there is no place .
But already we are heartened, because when the season starts to take Denis to heart Jason and gradually insert it in the best group. Gigliotti also improve the relationship. There is also good to see that our son is very used to do sparring with what they see as the new young emerging from their nursery, we believe it is the right thing, to do for another what is being done for him. Sport must also educate, no?
Only D'Ambrosio are still problems. In all these months, the attitude of the President in respect of my son (and our) does not change: when he needs the courts, promises " we do, we build, we will sign ..." (and we never signed anything) and just got the result it aside. Continued, and will continue until the end, not to pay the fees for him to tournaments. The pay us, and I feel like paying the duffer because of his son go to camp . whereas my son to success of his team colors!

Jason disputa tutti i tornei regionali, non solo quelli più prestigiosi, o solo i nazionali: gli abbiamo insegnato che è una questione di rispetto verso la sua squadra e verso coloro che lavorano per organizzare questi eventi. E anche verso se stesso: più gioca, più cresce.
E difatti cresce, i risultati sono lì a dimostrarlo.


Ma è inutile chiedere, parlare, cercare un dialogo. Orrmai noi abbiamo capito come lavora D'Ambrosio. Imprenditore capable and visionary, we can admit this, but in his philosophy the company he and only he, the rest are extras. Until such time as he needs you: then you talk, you own storyteller, the company magically transforms in the Family, with a capital "F, and appeals to your loyalty.
Now, after hearing this.
E 'winter, are the Malpensa airport. The national youth is leaving for Hungary. I somehow doubt that the Federation had done everything right, because Jason does not have a passport. But Roberto reassured me: they will have a town permit, no?
not have it, no one We thought Jason and Frizzo, only have an identity card, are blocked for boarding. Since I was very unexpected, I brought my passport, which they appear on my children. In other words: if I get on the plane too, Jason can go. The place is, they are on vacation, no problem.
But the problem is: Frizzo, the friend and companion, who will remain on the ground. We consult, but the decision is obvious: Jason will be home with her partner.
So for those who the company is a family?

Results for Jason in the past two years:

2006/2007
Italian Champion in the Junior Men's Doubles
Silver Junior Men's Doubles
Silver 3 rd Category Men's Doubles
Silver Mixed Doubles 3 rd Category
3rd in National Championship Series B2

2007/2008
Italian Champion in the Junior Men's Doubles
Italian Champion Junior Team Men
Bronze Junior Mixed Doubles Bronze
Under 21 Mixed Doubles
5th in the National Championship Series B1
7 th European Championships in Prague
Tournament 3 to Nat. Under 21 Terni
Tournament 3 to Nat. 3rd-Cat Dual M. Cortemaggiore
2 to Naz Tournament. 3rd-Cat Dual M. La Spezia
Tournament 3 to Nat. Junior Este (PD)



Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Small Sand Rail Plans

5 – Per il bene della squadra

No, the league B2 is not going at all well.
If this continues, the goal of B1 is unattainable. Indeed, the team may not even enter in the playoffs. The young Frizzo Tatum wins, is in a period of great form, but his teammate, the one adult, one who has been sacrificed Jason, has lost all the matches.
With impeccable timing, admittedly, the President called Jason D'Ambrosio. After all it took to make the team that will be B1, no? So my son finds himself in what must have been from the beginning his place, with some responsibility in the highest load shoulders.
Jason leaves all the disappointments behind him and enter into Frizzo team and won a place in Terni.
not enough: April 16, 2006 - Easter Sunday - Jason resoundingly won the national tournament for the fourth category. Beside him, in the gymnasium of the cones, that day there are only his parents. On the bench, while playing, there is no one of Pieve Emanuele, but his friend Simon Leto, friend from the Iron Crown of Monza . Registration for the tournament we have paid us, as we have paid all subscriptions to all tournaments, snow shoes, tires, frames, and travel. And the sparring partner that his father pays to train the boy personally.
But Jason wins. The weekly training with Boboc, in addition to those with Vili and the sparring, are bearing fruit.

And after this victory comes the first international call-up for an open in Spain. His first major international commitment.
Jason finally returns to smile, we can say that it is crazy to the happiness, and who would not be at her age? Too bad that this tournament is in conjunction with the playoffs in Terni.
The company is opposed to his departure, he needs him to win promotion to the B1, but no player can reject a call in the National Assembly.
How was really, who telephoned Who, what channels were activated, we do not know for sure.
What is certain is that Jason's father got a telephone call by the coach of the national team, Stefan Stefanov, who asked him "please" by declining the request, which was required for this high office directly from the Federation and that Jason it would acquire a "credit".
For the sake of Pieve Emanuele, Jason, 14 years and some months, he refused his first international call-up, his first trip abroad alone. Imagine yourself with that spirit.
telling this because what is important today, Mr. D'Ambrosio, and Jason accuses us of being ungrateful. A party that is not true, because we have always recognized the merits of the company and its coaches on the results of Jason, but we have also returned. Jason, as well as us.

Jason then goes to the playoffs and is contributing to the team that wins B1.
Not only the Italian championships, he and Tatum Frizzo students to win the title and third place teams in the junior men's doubles. And Jason, in single, became regional champion and junior students.
Roberto, who is grinding km going anywhere, he had to accompany the team to the playoffs in Terni, asks for a reimbursement of expenses to D'Ambrosio.
- Cercatevi another team - is the answer.
But offers to pay for a pizza for the whole family to celebrate the victory. We declined the offer.
So ends the 2005-2006 season. Jason, who in July 2005 was the absolute number 1004 in the national rankings, is now number 477.

The following year, the season starts just below the usual desirable: Pieve Emanuele dispute the championship of B1, but Jason is still with the team in less than B2. In front of his disappointment, his father and I try to make him mind, convincing him that is very young, that's another year of paying dues will be useful.